We’re all longing for a little honesty and humanity from each other but it feels unnatural to put ourselves out there and trust in the power of vulnerability, when there are no guarantees, so we shelter behind invisible walls to avoid being seen as we are. Some of us are in deep hiding and some…
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Be Kind. Always.
“Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always.” I heard this quote and a shot of regret coursed through my body. In 1999 I was working in a little coffee shack. I was 19. The weather was chilly and the clouds were heavy when a woman drove through and…
Blessing Bags – Helping the Homeless
Have you ever passed a homeless person and felt your heart sink knowing that you should do something but weren’t sure what? Sometimes when I see a homeless person I feel absolutely incompetent. The need is so great. What could I possibly do to help? Paralysis sets in and I do nothing at all. Fear…
Gold Diggers are Getting a Bad Rap
I think the term “gold digger” has gotten a bad rap. Songs have been written and movies have been made (Hey Kanye!). The term is generally used to describe someone who cozies up to another person just to siphon off what resources they have. The most common narrative is the pretty girl who goes after…
Facebook Fat and Soul Starved
Recently I had a span of several weeks where I couldn’t sleep. Either I couldn’t fall asleep until 2 in the morning or I fell asleep fine but would wake in the early hours. No matter how many breathing techniques I’d try or prayers I’d pray the sleep just wouldn’t come. I’m sure you’ve been…